When We as men have sex just cause we have a long huge cock doesn’t mean we need to wreck the pussy I had a friend tell me she didn’t know why men just pound on the pussy just cause they have a big dick she told that the man she was with just was wrecking her pussy by fucking her hard a fast. Ok men what we as men have to understand is that their is a time for ruff sex and a time to slow down and give the women’s full body our undivided attention just take the time to get her relaxed enough that when we give her foreplay we want to push her body pass it limits. For instance when I make love to my wife I bring everything to the bedroom things like sex toys of all sizes and shapes I even tie my wife down so when I get her relaxed enough and give her tongue play she can’t get a way from me I talk to my wife while I’m giving her tongue play letting her know that she moving the right way and she should keep doing what she’s doing I also let her know when we use huge sex toys I give them name like John, Mark Rick Sam and other just to give her a fantasy that she is being fuck by multiple men and not just me but when I use the huge strap ons cock I take my time oil them down and make sure she’s ready to receive the 18″ cock I always put her feelings first and I respect her body not just start pounding away on her like a mad man.😡😠 If this is what men are doing you should stop and think about her and her feelings how’s her body feeling while you pound her pussy nonstop we have remember that she is a nurturer full of care and patience and loving nature and we as men have make love to them as such when we do her body responds to us in a way that know one can comprehend the love making is better the women cums a lot more and she can relax and let herself go so you can get out of sex also. Some times tho a women wants ruff sex and when she do we have remember not to over do it with then it’s ok to spank talk shit and other things to but remember what we say and do can make women or man not want to deal with use at all again so just try to not be selfish and want her to suck our dicks right out the gate treat her with class and let her work up to that some of us men just think that a woman just suppose to suck our dick and get nothing in return why do some men think like this it’s because of selfishness all they want is what they want and don’t care about what the women wants so with that being said let’s discuss this topic selfishness in the bedroom and see some of the questions and responses we get make this fun ladies and gentlemen. 😀😃😄